Living in New England can really suck. This past winter proved that New England living can be fucking awful. But despite what Game Of Thrones may try to tell us, winter is over and not coming back for quite a while, so now New England living is awesome. Now we have warm weather and lots …
Fetish And Kink
I talk a lot about fetishes and kinks on Sexpressed. A lot of people have difficulty coming to terms with their fetishes and kinks, especially when they are really “out there”, and they come to me (and others, I’m sure) to find out if they are “normal” or not. But what is “normal”? What’s the …
Woman Claims To Have World’s Longest Tongue
Sometimes coming up with jokes about a thing is hard. You have to figure out how to mock or poke fun at a particular topic without coming off as a jerk, and still make it all funny. It can be tricky. But there are some situations where coming up with a joke is so easy …
What Is Compersion?
When I tell men about my non-monogamous relationships they usually all say, “Woah, that’s fucking awesome!” immediately. Then they usually ask a clarifying question, just to make sure they heard me right: “So you have a girlfriend and she’s cool with you banging other chicks? And you have threesomes? And you go to sex parties?” …
The Problem With Polynormativity: A Response
Generally I try and stay out of polyamory discussions, especially when those discussions involve the word “community” or some sort of derivation of that term. The idea of polyamory needing a “community” should be as ridiculous as the idea of monogamy needing one, or being gay, or liking hentai porn, or whatever else you can come up with. I …