I’m a 26 year old male. I fantasize about having sex with my mom. This incest feeling was cultivated in my mind the day when I accidentally caught my mother getting fucked by my friend. Though it was a very disturbing scene for me during the initial days, as time passed by I started loving the thought of my mom being used by my friend. Now the question is: in your opinion is it OK to approach my mom saying that I want to have sex with her, as she knows that I know about her infidelity with my friend and I still hide it from my dad?
-Aman
No.
No, Aman…it is not OK. It is so not OK, Aman.
Now, don’t get me wrong: approaching your mom to tell her that you want to have sex with her is in itself not “wrong”, per se. It might be weird and it might cause a lot of strain on your mother/son relationship and could put you in a very difficult situation with her and other members of your family. But, in its purest sense, telling your mother that you desire her sexually is not “wrong”. However, you must understand that her reaction to that statement could go any number of ways, and I’m not going to lie most of them will not be good for you, her, or anyone.
What’s really wrong about what you’re suggesting, Aman, is that you’re essentially going to blackmail your mother into fucking you. Let that sink in for a moment: you’re not asking your mother to fuck you (which is totally out there and bizarre in itself), and you’re not blackmailing some random person to fuck you (which is reprehensible and wrong). No: you are going to combine the two and try and blackmail your mother into having sex with you, which is so beyond fucked up and wrong that I don’t even know where to begin.
Look, Aman: I’m sorry that you saw your mother cheating on your father with a friend of yours. I’m sorry that that experience has led you to develop a sexual attraction to your mother. But what you’re suggesting here is absolutely fucked up and you should not even think about doing it.
Now, as far as simply asking your mother to have sex, i.e. by saying: “Mom, this is very difficult to ask and I have no idea how you will react, but I find myself sexually attracted to you and am curious to know if the two of us having sex would be something you would even ever consider?”, that’s OK. It’s weird, it’s fucked up, it’ll most likely destroy your relationship with your mother and cause tons of stress on you, her, and the rest of your family, but if that’s what you really want to ask: go for it. Ethically it’s not wrong to do so. But if you even so much as think of trying to use her infidelity as a tool to force her to fuck you so you don’t squeal on her, that’s…that’s just beyond fucked, Aman, and you should just cut your dick off and save the world a heap of trouble.
